St. Ignatius Feast Day

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St. Ignatius was well born and privileged. He was a soldier and loved the women. How does that kind of a person become a saint? Well, you’d be surprised to read about the backgrounds and beginnings of most saints.

During his military career, he was wounded in Pamplona when a cannonball ricocheted and broke his leg. He returned to the family castle in Loyola where he underwent several surgeries, setting and rebreaking of his leg, and all of this without anesthetic. While he recovered, he would walk with a limp for the rest of his life.

During his recuperation, Inigo as he was called then had visions and felt the call to the priesthood after his sister gave him books on the lives of Christ and the saints when the chivalric romances he requested could not be found.

When he was able, he went on pilgrimage to the Holy Land to walk in the footsteps of Jesus. He returned to Europe and eventually wnt to France and attended university.

He and six of his companions there swore vows to their lifelong work. He, along with Peter Faber and Franicis Xavier went on to found the Society of Jesus or The Jesuits as they are also known. In 1540, they were approved by Pope Paul III. Pope Francis is a Jesuit, the first Jesuit to be elected Pope.

Ignatius was the first Superior General of the Order and was called the Father General.

One of their practices is called The Daily Examen, which I like to pray in the evening. It is a quiet way to go over your day, see where G-d and Jesus were part of your day, and how you can make tomorrow better. (These are my interpretations of the examen.)

They also practice a contemplation known as the Lectio Divina or sacred reading, in which you put yourself in the Scripture stories, and pray on what you see there. There are five steps to this contemplation technique: prepare, read, meditate, pray, contemplate.

This article from the Jesuits’ website is a nice introduction: Everyday Ignatian: Patience and Lectio Divina.

Celebrating Mary Magdalene

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Today is the Feast Day of Mary Magdalene.

I am not going to talk about her “reputation” which is based in sexism and misogyny, but I’d like to remind people that she is now called the Apostle to the Apostles. She was the first to announce the resurrection of Jesus Christ, and she deserves to be called out for her willingness to tell the Good News to the men (and others) in hiding. (Parenthetically, I am not suggesting that there was no danger to his male disciples; of course, there was, but dismissing her for so long has really bothered me (and many others).)

This was one of my very first Tiny Saints. It was important for me to have that visual and tactile representation of St. Mary Magdalene.

I treasure her independence, her leadership, her bravery. I appreciate how she stepped out of her comfort zone, and can still, after all these years influence us in all the good ways that she was influencing Jesus and all the people surrounding Him.

Think of the ways and the people who have influenced you in the Gospel, the Good News, and how you can use Mary Magdalene’s example of independence, leadership, and bravery. What other ways can you meditate on these values and bring ourselves forward in our best and brave way?

Mary Magdalene, Pray for Us.

Inspired, and More

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The last few weeks have been nothing short of active, and I hope I’ve gotten through it with less scathing than would be normal for this kind of busyness. This post will be part mental health check-in, part inspired, part goal-setting.

Mental Health Check-in for Week 3 of July

I went back to my original post to see what the goals were that I thought I needed to focus on, and this was less than helpful. Goals and goalposts are constantly being adjusted. Looking at the biggest priorities, it’s still been iffy. Although to be fair to myself, I’ve been busy and not wasting time and opportunities, so while it’s been slow-going, it has still been going.

This is very much a positive.

Where are we this week?

  1. I was working on my presentation until about 7pm the night before. I realized there comes a point when it just needs to be done. I laid everything out on index cards, and did my thing. It was fantastic. I think everyone liked it and learned something new about St. Kateri Tekakwitha. I was able to constructively see things that I would change. I did a little improvisation and even though I finished later than planned, I was able to end on a decent note, and skipped a few slides at the end, and no one was the wiser. All in all, a good experience. I’m willing to do another powerpoint, although I’m hoping someone else presents it.
  2. Work. July 8th, I began working full-time. I haven’t worked full-time (outside the house) since my now-twenty-eight year old was two. It is a big adjustment for everyone, but my family is being supportive and picking up some tasks, and my co-workers and colleagues are amazing.
  3. Cursillo needs attention.
  4. I mentioned that I was going to avoid snoozing my alarms. I’ve still snoozed, but not as much and it’s made me more aware of what I need to do in the mornings to get out the door more efficiently.
  5. I’m disappointed in how our government is being run. I’m disgusted and repulsed by the Republican party, their hypocrisy, and their hatred. I don’t know how we come back from this precipice or how we survive.

Mental health check-in = EH.

And now for some inspiration!

I’m looking forward to taking my presentation and using it to push my book in the right direction. Below the cut are some of my inspiring and inspired photos from St. Kateri Tekakwitha’s feast day weekend.

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I am not surprised but I am sad and disappointed that this Administration is using hate as a foundation for its services. Things, like suicide prevention and crisis intervention shouldn’t discriminate because the conditions that cause mental health struggles, ideation, and crisis don’t discriminate.

Today’s planned posts will be postponed by this PSA from NAMI:

July Mental Health Check-in – Week 2

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I feel twisted like a pretzel, trying to get my goals organized and sorted and focus on the many things that need to be done.

Overall, I think I’ve done okay. The one success I can see is not hitting the snooze button. I’m still pressing snooze but not as often. This is definitely a good thing.

I’ve been working on my presentation for next week, and the good news is that all of the work for that is also useful for my book.

I do need to crack down on my Cursillo responsibilities though.

I need to reschedule a couple of medical appointments in the next few weeks, and I need to plan our family vacation.

How did all of you do this week?

Let me know in the comments.

July Mental Health Check-in – Week 1

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To start, let me remind you of the plan for July and the Mental Health Check in:

If you’re interested, drop me an email (kbwriting11@gmail.com) with your first name (or what you’d like to be called) and your email, and we’ll do a little email newsletter once a week, just for the people interested.


There is a sign-up, but it is free to join. Let’s see where this takes us, and see if we can support each other in our struggles, whatever they are.


You’ve had twenty hours or so to think about your personal goals for the next four weeks. I’ve thought about mine as well as what I can offer in the weekly emails that will benefit all of us.

I have my first week’s list ready to go with three main items of focus:

1. Book and Program

In two weeks, I am presenting a program on the same topic as my book. I need to finish the slide show, print out the information index cards, prepare the handouts, and try to keep my anxiety from getting the better of me. I’ve wanted to do this, but I also would rather not.

2. Work

Next week is a huge week at work, and Friday;’s a holiday and I’m off for my husband’s birthday, so tomorrow is the day to get as much done for up to Tuesday’s events. I can do this!

3. Cursillo responsibilities

I need to balance the checkbook, attend the July Ultreya, and mail out reimbursement checks.

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So, there are the lists. The main goal is to get from now to Tuesday, and hopefully be far enough ahead that I can set the goals for the next week.

I suggested scheduled breaks, and that is something I need to remember. Often if I’m in the middle of a project, whether at home or at work, I won’t stop until it’s finished. This is not healthy.

I’m going to use my phone’s alarms to my advantage rather than a crutch. For starters, no snooze for a week. That includes waking alarms and medicine reminders.

How about you?

What are your goals for this week?

Mental Health Monday – July Check-in

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I have struggled throughout June with publishing on this site. I don’t know if I’m too busy, if it’s writer’s block, if there’s just nothing to say – well, there’s plenty to say, but how to say it without insulting, offending, condescending, and pissing people off, that is the question.

But ultimately the real question is how do I evolve my writing while I’m doing other types of writing and work.

I went and returned on a research trip to Montreal, spent the day on Sunday at the Kanatsiohareke Strawberry Festival, this weekend is my husband;s birthday and the next weekend is St. Kateri’s feast day when I will spend the day at the Kateri Shrine, both for pleasure and business. We are planning a family vacation which circumstances caused it to be longer than anyone wants, which sounds great until you have to live it, and I’m about to begin working full-time, and yet, the house will not take care of itself. I say that as someone who has an enormous amount of help from their spouse.

I also fucked up all three of the taxes I filed for myself and two of my kids. I’ve decided to pay someone next year, but how to explain my filing system? *shrug* I’ve got about six months to figure that out!

It’s all still so stressful. Health issues abound. A conflict with a medical receptionist is coming to a head. Bills are piling up, and for the third time I’ve sent paperwork for financial assistance from a group that I need to continue to be nice to.

Some days it’s a hundred degrees, and others it’s sixty-five, and that fluctuation doesn’t help anyone.

I put my first draft together and it’s a lot less than what I thought it was.

So, how do I turn this mental health mountain back into a molehill?

I’m not sure.

And I haven’t even addressed the ongoing dystopian and autocratic nightmare that this country is turning itself into. It’s scary for most of us, but as someone with young adult children and who, with most of their family is Jewish, these are very scary times; times I never expected to witness outside of a history book.

How to Cope?

I’m going to go back to my old standard of lists.

Lists for home.

Lists for writing.

Lists for work.

Lists for kids.

I’m going to give myself some scheduled breaks. Even at work. I can breathe. I can read. I can play a word game on my Kindle. I can visit Starbucks, and I can take a walk to the mailbox.

Any other suggestions welcome.

How about you?

How will you get things done while maintaining your mental health?

How will you focus when your mind only wants to drift? What can you do to get through the days ahead?

Before our family vacation, I am going on retreat in about four weeks or so. Between now and then, and then once after the retreat, I would like to check-in once a week. Let’s say on Wednesday. I’ll post something public, but I’d also like to do something different. If you’re interested, drop me an email (kbwriting11@gmail.com) with your first name (or what you’d like to be called) and your email, and we’ll do a little email newsletter once a week, just for the people interested.

There is a sign-up, but it is free to join. Let’s see where this takes us, and see if we can support each other in our struggles, whatever they are.

For the next twenty or so hours, think about your personal goals for the next four weeks. I’ll think about mine, and also what I can offer in these weekly emails that will benefit all of us.

Breathe deeply and have peace,

KB