First Week of Summer Vacation

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First week of summer vacation.

We are disorganized, cluttered, unmotivated and all the bad things that come along with a summer with no direction for now.

Next week starts summer school for two of the kids, which will give child #2 some alone time and Mommy some quiet time either at the library or the coffee shop for an hour or so on the two days that I don’t have Mass.

This summer, we have 4-6 weeks of summer school, one week each of ‘camp’ and one week of vacation Bible school for the younger two.

I don’t think I mentioned it here, but about four weeks ago, my mother in law (who is 80) was hit by a car. It was, and remains very serious and she has already had multiple surgeries for her multiple broken bones and scrapes. She is doing very well, much better than anyone expected, but we know what a tough person she is, so we are grateful for her health up until this point.

We are trying to sort out some money to see if we can visit her this summer. She is still hospitalized. She is also having another surgery next week.

I’ll include the link here to our Go Fund Me page. We are grateful for any reblogs and prayers as well as those that can afford to help us monetarily.

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Tomorrow is the first ‘activity’ for the kids. The library is having a food program hosted by the local supermarket. I was able to sign both of them up early. We’re trying to set up a summer schedule for the two younger ones. Child #2 takes things very literally and likes to know what’s going on as well as being very organized. Child #3 can get more than a little rambunctious, and I think a little schedule on notecards will help her calm down a bit.

For me, I love calendars and schedules (I wonder where my son gets it from) so it’s nice to be able to have an answer when asked what are we doing tomorrow.

Some of our plans on a weekly basis are movie and popcorn day, bake bread, bake cookies, library time, walks outside if it’s not too humid (I have a lot of trouble in the sun, so my husband might be in charge of the outdoor activities), plus cleaning out closets and toy bins and getting rid of things that we don’t need.

We are typically very cluttered and that doesn’t even include the collections that we each have, and it’s time to downsize and simplify. Ha! I’ll let you know how it’s going. 😉

In addition to all of the family goings-on (which consist of too much TV time), I’ve had a resurgence of political feels. The Voting Rights Act, DOMA, Proposition 8, Sen. Wendy Davis of Texas. My Tumblr dash went absolutely crazy in all the best ways.

For my summer, I am going to try and keep my sanity as my main goal. I have three books to read and probably review. I have a fan fiction that I need to get back to, and some new Supernatural writings that I want to begin plus a few homework pieces for my memoir workshop that begins again in September, although we’re meeting for lunch in August.

I will probably try to reconnect with some friends in the next few weeks, most notably my college roommate who is more free in the summer than the rest of the year.

And then we’ll see what the fall brings as I try to keep my head above water.

~ 10 June 2013 ~

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I had intended to be here a few times last week, but real life reared its ugly head in an especially ugly way.

My mother in law was hit by a car on Thursday and sustained multiple breaks in pretty much every part of her body. She is in very serious condition in a hospital several hundred miles from our home. I’ve been on single parent duty while my husband traveled to her with his siblings, putting a strain on our already strained finances.

One of the good news items is my teenager really stepped up in the first half of the weekend to help out with dinners and his siblings as well as being extremely reliable.

The other good news item is that my mother in law is doing well, as well as can be expected and a little better than that even, surprising the nursing staff. She is a tough person and I have no doubt that she will back to herself sooner than anyone can imagine even though knowing that the road will be a long one.

I don’t think I will putting many updates here as this is a public blog and I don’t know how she (or my husband) would feel about this, although as with most of my writings, if there is a greater need to provide information (as I plan to do with other parts of my life and have done with my depression and faith), I will indeed come back to this as a topic.

My summer plan currently is to do random free writes a few times during each week, and longer pieces as inspiration strikes. I still have ideas to share from my recent trip to Virginia.

Thank you for sticking with me in spite of my inconsistencies, which I hope to remedy beginning at the end of this week.